Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Tips to creating your own attraction routines and gambits.

Just be yourself bla bla bla.... You can do that too, but it never hurts to have a routines in the can ready to go for when you need it. At the end of the day the routines or gambit won't get you the girl, but your personality shining through the gambit will. Think as routines as the delivery person while your personality is the PIZZA!

If you listen to someone telling a joke that makes you laugh. You may think that the joke is funny.

at the same time..

if you listen to the same joketeller telling 10 jokes, that make you laugh in a row. You may think that the joketeller is funny.

This is the way attraction gambits work if you can systematically demostrate attractive qualities you will be perceived as an attractive man.

In the time we live in, there is such thing is getting cought using material from The Game(Book). it happened to me Shocked anyway I still kissed closed Razz because at the end of the day, it's all about your personality.

So to avoid getting cought is always good to create your own atrraction gambits, this is how you do it!

An attraction routine or gambit is just a way to convey one of this two messages:

High Value (DHV)

or

Characteristics of and Alpha Male.


You can convey this message through Language, Body Language, voice tonality, etc.


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Making our own DHV Routines.
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The best way to demostrate high value(DHV) it's to not demostrate lower value Shocked sounds stupid right?

Now check this out:

some one ask" how are you?"

AFC answers, "I'm ok, tired from work, bla bla bla..."(DLV)(waining beta male)

Beginner PUA answers, "I'm great, how are you doing?" (you are not doing anything but just by not DLVing you are already vibing)

with practice you can turn it into this:

some one ask" how are you?"

I'm doing awesome, I got the gratest news... a big proyect in my life is about to pop, that's why I came here to celebrate with my friends... how are you doing?

The DHV spikes in this routine are:
You are happy, you have stuff going on in your life and you have cool friends that feel happy for your success.

(Practice something like this a few times and you will have a personalized DHV routine in the can and nobody will be able to catch you, using it.


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Making our own Routines to display the Characteristics of and Alpha Male
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First let's list some of this Characteristics:

-Leader of men
-Protector of loved ones
-Risk taker
-Lives in his own reality
-Pre-seleccion

Just make coments or tell stories in which you demostrate to have one of this qualities. let's do it:

It's funny how at work everytime the boss gives and order everybody waits for ME to say "yeah let's do it" he is cool, but sometimes he is clueless, nobody pays attention to him anymore. (Leader of men)

I love my syster, it's funny how her boyfriend is terrified by me... he is a "nice guy" but every once in a while I give him an "If you hurt my syster, I'll kill you" look just to keep him in check... JA JA(smile) (Protector of loved ones)

Now you practice making a comment or story for:

-Risk taker
-Lives in his own reality
-Pre-seleccion

If you don't have your onw material yet this will get you started!

POISON

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