Monday, September 27, 2010

Riding the train to nowhere!

The train to nowhere sucks! yes every once in a while you rea lize that you have been talking and spilling gambits left and right for 20 minutes to a girl that no matters what you do won't get into your spell. The train to nowhere feels like trying to fill an empty bucket with a whole on the bottom. The girl is there sitting next to you, accepting your kino, even paying attetion, but the set is dead or maybe I should say undead. The train to nowhere is like a zombie set. The girl is there but the emotions are not. She is having a great time but she is not being affected on a deep emotional level, therefore the interaction is going to nowhere.

Here are some pointers to identify and manage undead sets:

I have learned that the best way to completely avoid sets leading to nowhere is to be very chilled and to use extremely long pauses as you talk so you convey a lot of mystery and suspense everything you say become very interesting. Don't you ever rush thru your delivery, because the material won't get the girl is the alpha subcomunication what will get her.

If you notice the following two signal, you are riding the train to nowhere; You are doing 90% of the work  to keep the interaction alive and She is paying attetion but not looking at your eyes.

The best strategy I have found to make the best out of an undead set, It's to do a lot of flash game as soon as you realize that this is a zombie set, so you can attract attention, gain social proof, and move to a near by set. This some times will resucitate an undead set since the inicial girl will feel jealous and come back to game you.

And the end of the day there are not bad sets just go out and use every interaction to learn and to have fun.

Poison PUA

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